Dec. 23rd, 2025 10:56 am

I'm guessing he's gone by now

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I got a newsletter from the Texas Humane Heroes shelter that had this in it:

Screenshot 2025-12-23 10.14.11

Better pictures than I got.  I'm guessing he isn't there any more or won't be soon.  I'm not checking.  But he came from the same kind of background as Beaux so he will be the most grateful little guy.

Meanwhile both Beaux and Toby are getting better.  Still.  My only guess is they both are suffering from allergies on top of their fall respiratory infections.  Beaux is about 95% with only occasional coughing.  Toby sounds terrible much of the time but is still far better than he was.  He's on his third antibiotic and it is helping.  He's got trachea collapse that will never get much better so he frequently sounds like he can't breathe.  Sounds bad but he does not appear to be in as much distress as is Dana.

Today is another beautiful day that requires a bike ride.  So I'm off.

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A few months (?) ago, Discord updated on my computer and promptly stopped working. [It would technically launch, but the program window was just a blank rectangle.) Subsequent updates (which happen pretty much every time I relaunch my browser) installed cheerfully enough and made no difference. I grumpily chalked it up to not having updated my OS in ages (I'm very resistant, but usually enough things eventually get creaky or stop working that I give in and get [personal profile] scruloose to update the system), and since Discord was still working on my phone, I figured that was that for the foreseeable future.

Then a couple of days ago, I let Discord install its newest update...and suddenly everything worked again. o_o I certainly wasn't going to complain, but it surprised me enough that I mentioned it to Kas on the weekend, and having just dealt with some Discord shenaniganry himself, he had an answer: Discord has decided it doesn't play nicely with some VPN locations, and I had happened to change my location setting to one it liked.

I mostly lurk on Discord, but there are a couple where I make tentative attempts at being social, and my dislike of typing more than a sentence or two at a time on my phone meant I was even quieter than usual for a while there, so this is a good development. But also, WTF, Discord.

Did I forget to mention the new-to-me Christmas ice cream here? It looks like I did.

A local ice creamery (Dee Dee's) does Advent calendars, which I had largely forgotten about until I saw mention of it on Bluesky, at which point I was safe from ordering one (too late!), but it got me to look at their seasonal flavors. Next thing I knew, I was asking [personal profile] scruloose to stop at a local-groceries shop that carries their ice creams, because I had to know what the chicken bones* flavor was like.more about that, plus a cheese stash )
Dec. 23rd, 2025 12:34 pm

A sudden withdrawal

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I am an idiot who forgot my blood pressure medicine when I came down to Devon to see my parents.

So this morning I went in to the local pharmacy. Who can't help me because NHS England and NHS Scotland are two different organisations. But they told me to call NHS 111 and ask them for help.

NHS 111 said "We don't have anyone available who can prescribe, call us back after 6:30PM, or talk to a local GP as "Unregistered or Temporary Residents". So we went in to my dad's GP and they said "We don't help in that situation, go talk to NHS 111, they'll help you." - which would seem to leave me in an endless loop.

Just in case, I called my GP surgery in Scotland, who said that they can't prescribe in England.

At which point, as nobody is considering this very important, I think about the only options are to either call back after 6:30 tonight or to just do without for a week. Which, having checked online, doesn't look like a great idea.

Edit: I called them back at 7:00. Got through to someone helpful who has given me the location of a pharmacy that we're going to visit first thing tomorrow morning, who have been instructed to help us.

No idea why that didn't happen the first time!
Dec. 23rd, 2025 07:00 am

Best of Posts 2025

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Posted by Amanda

NB: This week, we’re taking a look back at some of our favorite and our most popular pieces of writing this year. We’ve got a week of best-of posts to share, with reviews, cover snark, and more. We hope you enjoy revisiting our archives, and most of all, we wish you and yours a wonderful holiday and a happy new year – with all the very best of reading.

Since we feature other things outside of reviews like HaBOs, Rec Leagues, and general opinion pieces, we wanted to look at what y’all really engaged with the most. I kept out sale posts, our regular new releases, and the Whatcha Reading columns.

Here’s the top five!

5. Track Your 2025 Reading With Our Community-Built Spreadsheet!

Last year’s reading spreadsheet also cracked the top five posts of the year. It’s glad to see the community still loves using the tool. Don’t worry, it’ll be back again in 2026. How’d your tracking go?

4. Careless People and Barbra Streisand

Meta did an oopsie and tried to stop Careless People from being published, and their lawsuit had the opposite effect of what they intended. Now, it was on everyone’s radar. I bought a copy. How about you?

3. Ali Hazelwood Dislikes Peeta, And That Was a Problem for Some Folks

This feels like it was a lifetime ago. Author Ali Hazelwood admitted on a panel that she found Peeta of The Hunger Games to be “useless.” The fandom backlash resulted in Hazelwood closing her Instagram for a time.

2. Fable’s Reader Summary Features Racism (And Probably AI)

AI and racism kicked off 2025. This was published on January 1st. Fable, a social media app for readers, implemented a tool for users to look at their reading stats and it was disastrous. Wonder how Fable is doing now?

1. Sinners & Stardust & Sexual Assault

This was the year of awful book events. I feel like every month, Sarah and I discussed some con or signing that went terribly. What started as a promising event for readers of dark romance ended with horrific stories of alleged sexual assault and predatory behavior.

Posts on the current bookish discourse really shined this year!

Did you have a favorite post this year that really stood out to you? Or are there any features you just love reading?

Dec. 22nd, 2025 09:26 pm

Weather Talk

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The river came up and did a little of very half hearted flooding yesterday, mostly it just ran bank full.  Today it didn't rain till well after dark. Tomorrow's forecast is for 1.25 inches, enough to bring the river right back up again, but I doubt the flooding will be bad here very close to the headwaters of our Russian River. 

The cows wandered into the horse pasture yesterday evening, prompting Donald and I to go out, cut a tree and a limb off the fence (they were fairly small) and get the fence working.  My it is nice to have repaired the wire under the road! It makes the whole system work better.  The meter says it is carrying 8 jewels, which is enough to make you really, really, really wish you had never touched the wire.  Speaking of he cows, they seem calm and happy so whatever was scaring them either isn't there any more or isn't in this pasture. Since there really is no boundary except a wire fence (with the gate open) I hope that whatever it was has moved on.  Donald and I walked from the top to the bottom of Jungle Pasture today and saw nothing out of the ordinary. No tracks even.

Due to the forecast of flooding and holiday traffic I took Donald to the Smart Train today. Tomorrow there might be flooding and it will be raining.  Today it was a pretty nice drive. 

Tomorrow. Chores around the house, replace light fixture at the Red Barn. 


Dec. 22nd, 2025 08:20 pm

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I can feel it happening. Many artists enter - usually at the end of their career - a phase where they no longer govern themselves by the rules they know will make their work intelligible to others. Nowadays I often find I just want to photograph the light sliding across the backdrop from morning to night. It won't mean a damn thing to anyone else. But it's the utter essence of photograph, the light at an exact place and time.
Dec. 22nd, 2025 03:24 pm

Books I've Read: October 2024

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I'm chunking these posts based roughly on the number of books, so some cover one month, some two.

Tooth and Claw by Jo Walton -- (audio) What if Regency England social politics but murderous dragons? I found it a fascinating worldbuilding project. My notes say "peculiarly interesting." I felt that things wrapped up too tidily at the end with the "good guys" all getting rewarded and escaping consequences. I recall having some other thoughts about the gender politics but I'd have to go back and re-read to recall specifics.

The First Rebellion by M.C. Beaton -- (audio) I had signed up for a new audiobook outlet (Chirp) that often has significantly reduced sale prices, so I've periodically taken the opportunity to try some books that I wasn't specifically looking for. (In general, I've tended to be unsatisfied with the books I've picked for that reason, but you never know.) Straight historic romance. Supposedly a "naïve bluestocking rebel wins the heart of a rakish nobleman by being unruly and rude to him" but I found it really hard going. The characters were childish and unlikeable and the male lead isn't worth winning. DNF.

Mary and the Birth of Frankenstein by Anne Eekhout -- (audio) Spotted this one when pulling titles for the podcast. An imaginative story coming up with a (fictional) backstory for events that inspired details in Frankenstein. My notes say "very literary and more than a bit Freudian." There is a sapphic plot thread but it doesn't have a happy ending. Content note for sexual grooming and abuse.

The Duke at Hazard by K.J. Charles -- (audio) A delightful homage to Georgette Heyer's The Foundling, featuring a naïve young duke and his quest to prove himself competent and independent. Utterly charming and satisfying. It combined enough parallels with the original to amuse the reader while diverging in enough points to be its own thing. Certain characters in the conclusion cross over with The Gentle Art of Fortune Hunting. (I've occasionally noodled f/f Heyer-homage plots and reading this got me thinking strongly about the social and economic logistics of how to do a sapphic version of Cotillion. To the extent that I have an outline-and-notes document for it.)

Craze by Margaret Vandenburg -- (audio) A history lesson about queer life in 1920s New York City, dressed up as a novel. Entertaining and informative, if occasionally overly erudite for some readers. Read in the context of interviewing the author for my podcast.

The Fire and the Place in the Forest by Jeannelle M. Ferreira -- (audio) Short fiction and poetry focusing on sapphic relationships, especially in historic settings. Even though my main format for fiction these days is audio, I'd buy Ferreira's work in that format no matter what because even her prose is poetic and that's the best way to receive it. (Advisory: I am not exactly unbiased as she has sold me stories.)

The Cloud Roads by Martha Wells -- (audio) Secondary world fantasy. I'd been wanting to check out some of Wells' earlier work and this came up on sale (if I recall correctly). Amazing worldbuilding, though with a bit of a "generic fantasy" feel in the prose. I did have the same issue I had with the first Murderbot story I read, which was feeling like it was overloaded with blow-by-blow fight scenes. (But maybe I'm alone in finding that a negative?) This is a romance novel at heart, with many standard tropes gender-flipped due to the social structure, which resembles that of social insects.

If I do one of this posts per day, I should be caught up by the end of December. That will be my goal.
Dec. 22nd, 2025 11:50 pm

Yarnbomb!

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325/365: Yarnbombed pillar box, Stourbridge
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This is a "yarnbombed" pillar box on the platform at Stourbridge Junction station. The actual box isn't visible here, but the knitted topper is the important bit in any case. It's a very festive example and it certainly gave me a smile today. :)
Dec. 22nd, 2025 05:56 pm

Monday Word: Ignavia

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ignavia /iɲˈɲa.vja/

noun

1. the sin of sloth or idleness or moral cowardice.

examples

1. Every honest man will admit that a violent effort is necessary to shake off ignavia critica critical laziness, that so widespread form of intellectual cowardice; that this effort must be constantly repeated, and that it is often accompanied by real suffering. ON BELIEVING WHAT WE’RE TOLD. 21 Dec 2004

2. The pity that proves so possible and plentiful without that basis, is mere ignavia and cowardly effeminacy; maudlin laxity of heart, grounded on blinkard dimness of head -- contemptible as a drunkard's tears. Latter-Day Pamphlets. Thomas Carlyle. 1838

origin
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The Divine Comedy, Purgatorio, Canto 18: The multitude of the slothful - Illustration by Gustave Dore

sloth
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Blessed Yule and solstice, friends. May this next turn of the year be better to all of us than the one that's just ended.

Impressively and unexpectedly, we didn't lose power on the weekend (so many people did!); not really coincidentally, Bucky remains undecorated. We also haven't put up any lights or the wreath outside (probably just as well, given the winds), and I didn't even think of that until maybe yesterday. Oh, well.

(I no longer have any real hope of finishing a draft of this rewrite before Christmas, since I'm getting such a late start on work today and we have plans for much of Christmas Eve once [personal profile] scruloose's half-day of work ends. It's fine. I've been doing other things. *shrugs*)

A few nights ago I guess I ~slept wrong~, as I woke up Saturday with a very unhappy neck. Yesterday was better, and today is better again, and I'm lucky to not have this kind of thing happen more often (*knocks wood*), but it's so annoying as well as painful. Body, if you're taking damage while sleeping, why don't you move to a better position?! Does the conscious brain need to handle everything around here? (Thankfully no.)
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Posted by Heather Rose Jones

Monday, December 22, 2025 - 10:00

I can't say I'm disappointed in how skimpy this article was on f/f issues,  but only because I had very low expectations to begin with.

Major category: 
Full citation: 

Leupp, Gary P. 2007. “Capitalism and Homosexuality in Eighteenth-Century Japan.” in Historical Reflections / Réflexions Historiques, vol. 33, no. 1, pp. 135–52.

I went into this article expecting there to be functionally no content on female homosexuality. I was only slightly wrong. The general context of the article is an assertion that the increasing visibility of (male) homosexuality in Japan as well as in Europe, China, and elsewhere have a common factor in the evolution of capitalism and the resulting “commodification of sexuality.” I’m not exactly convinced, but on the other hand, after reading the first couple paragraphs I started to skim to see whether there was any mention of women at all. In the last couple pages, we find “We know little about premodern and early modern female-female sexuality in Japan, although many scholars have asserted that lesbianism flourished in the Imperial and shogunal harems.” (The statement cites two sources, one another article by the same author and the other a publication in Japanese.) The author goes on to assert that, like male homosexuality, female-female relations in this era were “commodified” and consisted of female prostitutes who catered to women. Two fictional examples are provided involving prostitution or the sexual use of a maidservant by her female employer. There was a minor fashion for artwork depicting lesbian sex, usually involving a double-ended dildo. Although such art was intended for male consumption, there is evidence that such sex toys were not a mere fantasy. All in all I found this article rather unsatisfying and dismissive, though I will follow up on the other referenced publication.

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Dec. 22nd, 2025 11:50 am

Not a fitbit

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I got Dana another smart watch.  The first one I got her was not very smart at all and it died.  The one I just got her looked like it was better but it was run by an app called VeryFit.  I occasionally get annoyed with the Fitbit app but now I love it by comparison.  VeryFit is VeryCrapful.  It throws advertisements and offers at you right and left and has so much noise on it there is no way to figure out what is useful.  It lasted a day.  Dana and I had a talk and I upgraded her to a Fitbit watch.  I'm the one that has to manage the app which is why she has an Android rather than an Iphone in the first place.  So her replacement will be a delayed Christmas present and someone will get a good deal on a VeryFit watch through Amazon returns.

She really does need the pulse and O2 readings.  It will help her a lot.  She doesn't do enough movement for the steps to matter but hope springs eternal.  Maybe she will one day.

Today was a pickleball day and I didn't play very well at all.   I did exchange notes with a PB friend about getting a lesson for the two of us together.  It is a good way to do it.  She and I are pretty good partners and getting a lesson together will help us individually and as a team.  On the one hand I don't think I'm ever going to compete with any real intent of winning something like a tournament.  On the other hand I really should be looking to improve a little bit anyway.

It is warm today and will be even warmer until Friday when it will nearly hit 80 degrees.  Gonna be a lot like last year, I guess.  I don't mind.  Older I get the less I like the cold anyway.  It would be fun to see Beaux in the snow but not sure he'd like it much.

It is a quiet week here.  We have zero plans for Christmas something about which I do not much care at all.  They had Christmas music on at the PB courts.  I've managed to avoid it so far but this was unavoidable.  Another thousand times around the track with the Chipmonks and Alvin.  Sigh.

I underslept last night so I'm about to make up for it.  Beaux and Toby are already ahead of me so I need to catch up.
Dec. 22nd, 2025 09:05 am

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On a dark BG a single bulb with two flowering stems. Of about ten flowers, four are fully open, and the rest are in late bud or early opening stages. Each flower has three petals and three sepals. Their base colour is light icy green with a central clear midrib, and varying degrees of red wash and veining in each. The one pointing directly down has the least red. The stamens are prominent and pale green. The light is morning window light.
Hippeastrum 'Wild Amazone', amaryllis (N.L. van Geest B.V., 2019)
©Bill Pusztai 2025



A black backdrop, textured. On it a very pale blue-green celadon plate. On that, a pair of the flat type of persimmons, still attached to their twig. They have been on the tree quite late and so are a bit beat up, with cracks, scratches, and spots. There are water droplets on the plate.
Diospyris kaki, persimmon
©Bill Pusztai 2025

Dec. 22nd, 2025 07:40 am

Cats

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All day yesterday, Biggie was Biggie. Back to himself again. But then, Julio threw up which he never has before. And, four hours later, he did it again. FUCK. But he's been fine since then and both of them seem very normal this morning. They are breakfast, they knocked over some shit, Biggie begged for treats and now they are both napping in their usual morning nap spots.

If Julio is ever sick enough to need the vet, it had better be fast and fatal because I'll never catch him to get him into a carrier. I've done it twice - once when he was tiny and my brother was there to help. And once when we moved here and it took more than an hour of chasing him. Hopefully, this was a one off and now it's done.

In my next life, I think I'll be a linguist, particularly a dilectologist. I hope I have more precise hearing for it.

I am sure I have another bag of tofu litter in this house. And I am sure I have another bag of Halloween mellow creme pumpkins in this house and I can not find either of them. This house is not that big. There are not that many places to hide shit and I swear I've searched every nook and cranny.

I do know where my keys and sunglasses are, though.

Today I'm going to a pop up aqua aerobics class. There's a woman here who is essentially the director's secretary who is teaching it. She was initially hired here a couple of years ago as a roving employee - on the front desk, in the dining room, odd jobs. She had experience as a aqua fit teacher so it was thought she'd fill in now and again but she never did. But the fitness director is trying new things to see how she can best fill in the schedule - best for the residents and best for the fitness staff. This pop up class is testing it all - the schedule and the teacher and the residents. My friend, Martha, will be there and some others I know. Should be fun. It's not till 11.

Otherwise this week looks fairly calm. A lot of people will be gone, of course, and/or having company. Wednesday and Thursday meals will be down to one big meal each day which is fine. We have a good puzzle going and some other good ones in the queue. I have lots of TV to watch and minimonsters to knit.


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Dec. 22nd, 2025 01:28 pm

I cannot see images hosted on Imgur

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I'm not sure this is all that well known outside the UK, but the Imgur image host is blocked here. Unless I mess around with VPNs, I cannot see any pictures hosted there. You don't need to change what works for you, of course – just be aware that I won't be able to view or comment on your pics if you use Imgur.
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