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lydamorehouse ([personal profile] lydamorehouse) wrote2025-12-30 10:45 am

Thank you all!

I really appreciated all the lovely stories that people provided for me yesterday. They really, honestly cheered me up tremendously. THANK YOU ALL SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH.

There were a couple of things going on yesterday, not the least of which was ther prospect of having to work the snow emergency under the new conditions. You all may not be at all surprised to discover that I have "quiet quit," in part because the job became even more unreasonable than it already was.

For those of you just tuning in, the tl;dr is that I previously enjoyed being a "tagger" (the person who gave out parking tickets during a snow emergency) for the City of Saint Paul due to the independent nature of the job. The job changed this year and now the only option is to be an assistant to a retired/reserve police officer as a kind of ride along. Many things, including ACAB, that I no longer could even imagine enjoying, since the largest part of my appreciation of the previous work was, in fact, the autonomy.

Yesterday, things got exponentially worse.

Because I spent much of last season also feeling dread over a job I ended up enjoying, I was determined to attempt to go on at least one shift this year to be absolutely sure that I did, in fact, actually despise it. So, when the call came out yesterday, I BRAVELY answered.

So the initial email offered these shifts, (though they would not guarantee work):

St Paul has DECLARED A SNOW EMERGENCY and runners are needed.
This is a call for ALL Shifts:
- Monday (12/29 NIGHT - 8pm - 5am)
- Tuesday (12/30 DAY - 7am - 5pm)
- Tuesday (12/30 NIGHT - 8pm - 5am)
- Wednesday (12/12 DAY - 7am - 5pm)


Yeah, these are terrible hours. The shift is ten hours, but this was also nothing new. These were the hours I worked last year and I was surprised by how fast the time actually went when you were out and about. So, okay, I wrote back and said I could do the day shift today (you may note I am writing this TODAY.)

The first hassle was waiting to find out if I actually snagged a shift. The email was very clear that I should not show up to work unless I got a notification telling me where and when to show up. Both of these interoggative pronouns confused me a bit since the WHEN was very clearly stated above among my choices and where else would I show up other than the Public Works building in Saint Paul? But, okay, I understood the assignment: wait and see what I was offered before making definite plans to work the next day.

And so I waited.

And waited.

The previous year, this is was much more straight-forward. Regardless of when the text went out (though it was guaranteed to come out by 3 pm the day that the emergency was called), once we agreed to a shift it was ours. You could make plans, pack up a lunch, etc., etc. well in advance.

It was 6:30 pm the night beofre an early morning shift that I got the following message:

You are scheduled for:
- Tuesday DAY (12/30 - 06:00 - 18:00)

I had to read the message three time before calling Shawn upstairs to also double-check my math. 6 am to 6 pm??? That's a TWELVE hour shift, y'all. Also, NOT AT ALL WHAT WAS INITIALLY OFFERED. 

So, with Shawn's seal of approval, I told them absolutely no fucking way. Only, I just used two letters: "n" nd "o."  And, I was moderately polite about it. I believe my actual response was, "I can not work a twelve hour shift. If that means you need to choose someone else, so be it."  

Like, y'all? I was actually perfectly willing to consider ten (possibly horrific) hours in a car with a cop (or, more likely outside in the freezing conditions on the streets of Saint Paul with a cop harrassing me to hurry up.)  But twleve hours feels vaguely unconstitutional, you know? Especially since at the informational meeting I attended regarding the changes in this job, I asked, "So, you're talking a lot about how fast you want to do this job. I'm a woman who is nearly 60 years old. You will make time for me to go to the bathroom right?" And I got a look like, NO, and an answer that was, and I quote, "This is why we go to the bathroom before our work."  To which, I said, "Sir, we are talking about a ten hour shift and a 60 year old bladder." This didn't didn't even get a laugh. They were dead serious that they weren't willing to give me the breaks that are, in fact, guaranteed by Minnesota Labor Law. 

So ... (again, possibly not in a surprise to anyone) ACAB and F*ck Saint Paul.
Smart Bitches, Trashy BooksSmart Bitches, Trashy Books ([syndicated profile] smartbitches_feed) wrote2025-12-30 04:30 pm

Books by B.K. Borison, Sarah Penner, & More

Posted by Amanda

Love on the Brain

Love on the Brain by Ali Hazelwood is $2.99! I feel like I rarely see Hazelwood’s books on sale and I do worry this one will poof immediately. However, if you wanted to give this one a try without waiting for a library hold to come in, this can be yours for less than $3.

A STEMinist rom-com in which a scientist is forced to work on a project with her nemesis–with explosive results.

Like an avenging, purple-haired Jedi bringing balance to the mansplained universe, Bee Königswasser lives by a simple code: What would Marie Curie do? If NASA offered her the lead on a neuroengineering project–a literal dream come true after years scraping by on the crumbs of academia–Marie would accept without hesitation. Duh. But the mother of modern physics never had to co-lead with Levi Ward.

Sure, Levi is attractive in a tall, dark, and piercing-eyes kind of way. And sure, he caught her in his powerfully corded arms like a romance novel hero when she accidentally damseled in distress on her first day in the lab. But Levi made his feelings toward Bee very clear in grad school–archenemies work best employed in their own galaxies far, far away.

Now, her equipment is missing, the staff is ignoring her, and Bee finds her floundering career in somewhat of a pickle. Perhaps it’s her occipital cortex playing tricks on her, but Bee could swear she can see Levi softening into an ally, backing her plays, seconding her ideas…devouring her with those eyes. And the possibilities have all her neurons firing. But when it comes time to actually make a move and put her heart on the line, there’s only one question that matters: What will Bee Königswasser do?

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You can find ordering info for this book here.

 

 

 

First-Time Caller

First-Time Caller by B.K. Borison is $1.99! This is first in a new series and came out in February. I loved the colors of this cover so much that I made it the palette for my home office.

Aiden Valentine has a secret: he’s fallen out of love with love. And as the host of Baltimore’s romance hotline, that’s a bit of a problem. But when a young girl calls in to the station asking for dating advice for her mom, the interview goes viral, thrusting Aiden and Heartstrings into the limelight.

Lucie Stone thought she was doing just fine. She has a good job; an incredible family; and a smart, slightly devious kid. But when all of Baltimore is suddenly scrutinizing her love life—or lack thereof—she begins to question if she’s as happy as she thought. Maybe a little more romance wouldn’t be such a bad thing.

Everyone wants Lucie to find her happy ending…even the handsome, temperamental man calling the shots. But when sparks start to fly behind the scenes, Lucie must make the final call between the radio-sponsored happily ever after or the man in the headphones next to her.

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Winter’s Orbit

RECOMMENDED: Winter’s Orbit by Everina Maxwell is $2.99 and a KDD! Ellen read this one and gave it an A-:

If you enjoy sci-fi, arranged marriage/marriage of convenience stories, courtly intrigues, and/or slow-burn romance, I think Winter’s Orbit is a great choice.

Ancillary Justice meets Red, White & Royal Blue in Everina Maxwell’s exciting debut.

While the Iskat Empire has long dominated the system through treaties and political alliances, several planets, including Thea, have begun to chafe under Iskat’s rule. When tragedy befalls Imperial Prince Taam, his Thean widower, Jainan, is rushed into an arranged marriage with Taam’s cousin, the disreputable Kiem, in a bid to keep the rising hostilities between the two worlds under control.

But when it comes to light that Prince Taam’s death may not have been an accident, and that Jainan himself may be a suspect, the unlikely pair must overcome their misgivings and learn to trust one another as they navigate the perils of the Iskat court, try to solve a murder, and prevent an interplanetary war… all while dealing with their growing feelings for each other.

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The London Seance Society

The London Séance Society by Sarah Penner is $1.99 and another KDD! Penner’s books usually have a dose of historical fiction, magic, and romance. We mentioned this one on a previous Hide Your Wallet.

May mercy be upon the man who finds himself the enemy of a vengeful medium…

1873. At an abandoned château on the outskirts of Paris, a dark séance is about to take place, led by acclaimed spiritualist Vaudeline D’Allaire. Known worldwide for her talent in conjuring the spirits of murder victims to ascertain the identities of the people who killed them, she is highly sought after by widows and investigators alike.

Lenna Wickes has come to Paris to find answers about her sister’s death, but to do so, she must embrace the unknown and overcome her own logic-driven bias against the occult. When Vaudeline is beckoned to England to solve a high-profile murder, Lenna accompanies her as an understudy. But as the women team up with the powerful men of London’s exclusive Séance Society to solve the mystery, they begin to suspect that they are not merely out to solve a crime, but perhaps entangled in one themselves…

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Susan Dennis ([personal profile] susandennis) wrote2025-12-30 08:24 am

Vacation week

The pool is still cold and getting colder. The fixers are due to fix but no joy yet. So no swimming. No volleyball. I should go down to the gym and use one of their machines go get my muscles going but I've discussed this with my muscles and they are not giving me a compelling reason to go. The old saw of we won't work one day just isn't cutting it. So I'm declaring it vacation week.

At the risk of jinxing it, the cats both seem back to normal. They have eaten their breakfast and Biggie's had his treats and they are both just hangin' out here in the living room instead of hiding in the closet like they have been. No red in anyone's pee and nice little Tootsie roll poops. Biggie goes back to the vet a week from Thursday.

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I scored big at Value Village yesterday. I spent $25 and got all manner of soon to be creature hair. All different colors and different textures. I got one unraveled yesterday and will do some more today.

I discovered while I was out yesterday that someone tanked the temperature around here. It was really cold out. I was going to fill up the gas tank but that soon evolved in NFW. I have enough to pick up my brother at the airport next week. I'll get him to fill it :) Filling my car with gas is a chore, like emptying the dishwasher, that I just hate. For more than a handful of years at the condo, I didn't even use the dishwasher because I hated emptying it. Not filling the gas tank is a little trickier.

My 'vacation' will be interrupted today by the house cleaner. I'm perfectly ok with that.

I got a notice from Social Security about my 'salary' for this year that starts on Friday. Because they fucked me over last year, I'm getting a $500 increase this year. I'm still pissed about last year but I'm perfectly Ok with the extra scheckels. My Timber Ridge rent is going up so coverage. Next up income tax. But, I'm pretty sure I've over paid the estimated so no big bill. I will be glad to get it sorted and done, though. Next year, and the years that follow, will be easy breezy tax wise.

I think I'll go pop in a load of laundry and then get dressed.

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Mark T. B. Carroll ([personal profile] mtbc) wrote2025-12-30 03:22 pm
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Moderately distant beaches

Our couple of small road trips down into England afforded some success though plans were a little derailed by sites having holiday closures that weren't previously obvious. Fortunately, my plans include fallbacks so, among other things, our dog L. had a good time running around on Bamburgh Beach in Northumberland (near the impressive castle) and Roanhead Beach in Cumbria (near Morecambe Bay). He also got to see swans at Annandale Water from as close as I dared let him get. Roanhead Beach turned out to be enormous: by coincidence, we arrived at around low tide when there is an awful lot of walking along the sand that one can do before getting near any sea. I also learned to avoid Windermere: narrow roads full of tourists.

L.'s been suffering some gastrointestinal issue over these holidays; there has been an infection going around. They now seem to be on the mend but it slows us down and distracts us while we focus on making sure they're okay. We actually left Northumberland early to make it to an appointment with our regular vet. With luck, we won't need a second appointment.

After a quiet New Year at home, we'll go to visit family in Dundee then be back at work. R. works tomorrow too, at least from home, helping to fill out the support rota.
Smart Bitches, Trashy BooksSmart Bitches, Trashy Books ([syndicated profile] smartbitches_feed) wrote2025-12-30 03:00 pm

HaBO: She Exposes His Pregnant Fiancée at the Altar

Posted by Amanda

This HaBO request is from IPs_90, who is looking for this historical romance:

I need your amazing collective memory to find a historical romance novel (read in French translation between 2000-2018).

The Gist: I’m looking for a Historical Romance novel. The whole thing kicks off with a massive scandal at a wedding.

The Scene: The book opens on the hero’s wedding. The heroine (who knows and loves the hero, and does not like the bride) exposes the fiancée for being pregnant by the hero’s brother/cousin/friend. The heroine’s reveal successfully cancels the wedding.

Crucial Details:

The heroine and hero have known each other for years.

The wedding is in a simple location (house, tavern), suggesting they are not Dukes or high society.

The cancelled wedding is only the catalyst for the main plot.

Potential Mix-Up: The heroine’s name might start with P (Penelope, Philida, etc.).

Ruled Out: Mary Balogh (The Secret Pearl), Johanna Lindsey (Malory series).

Any fellow bitches recognize this hyper-specific wedding disaster scene?

Can we HaBO before the new year?

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lb_lee ([personal profile] lb_lee) wrote2025-12-30 10:30 am

Seu Malandrino, from "Samba" by Alma Guillermoprieto

An anonymous reader sent us this cool thing:

I found a historic Brazilian example of plurality and wanted to share it with you. In the nonfiction book "Samba" by Alma Guillermoprieto, she describes Seu Malandrino, a dead man who sometimes possessed a favela-dwelling woman. Here's an excerpt from pp. 110 — 111:

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On Mondays, Celina’s body was often on loan to a scoundrel by the name of Seu Malandrino, who wore her chunky, comfortable flesh with a menacing swagger, spit obscene words out of the corner of his mouth, straddled her only chair horseback-style, and kept his face wreathed in a halo of cigarette smoke.

The first time I saw him, while poking my head in Celina’s door and running directly into the stare from his dirty yellow eyes, I found him very frightening indeed. It took a couple of seconds before I recognized a face under the white boater hat with red trim and babbled an apology for the intrusion. “I’m sorry, Celina,” I began, and was cut short. “Celina isn’t here. My name is Seu Malandrino.” The voice was gravelly and sinuous… “Let the gringa come in!” he said to a frightened young couple sitting on the sofa, and to me, “Sit in that corner and shut up!”
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james_davis_nicoll ([personal profile] james_davis_nicoll) wrote2025-12-30 09:31 am

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Allowed Burglar Drake Maijstral is stalked by a mysterious foe.

Rock of Ages (Drake Maijstral, volume 3) by Walter Jon Williams
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firecat (attention machine in need of calibration) ([personal profile] firecat) wrote2025-12-30 12:57 am

Consequences

Turns out that listening to an audiobook of The Witcher in the vicinity of an iThing can cause a mildly irritating problem
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lb_lee ([personal profile] lb_lee) wrote2025-12-29 02:06 pm

Multi Bechdel

Rogan: After making my silly Bechdel in Bookshelf post, I found myself thinking about other variations. I also found myself thinking about how community is shown in fiction.

 

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Ysabet ([personal profile] umadoshi) wrote2025-12-29 03:47 pm

Post-Christmas mishmash | Recent media

(As is so often the case, I'm generally up to date on reading my DW circle, but not doing at all well with commenting.)

I guess at this point we're well into the liminal last bit of the year. (I said to [personal profile] scruloose earlier that I still try to hold "Christmas is twelve days, dammit" in my heart, but it's hard, especially when our observance of the the holiday at all is so low-key.) We had masked visits with both sets of parents (mine on Christmas Eve and [personal profile] scruloose's on Boxing Day), and in between, Christmas Day was just the two of us and the cats and the Netflix fireplaces. My mom sent us home with Christmas stockings and some gifts (also very low-key; we still keep nudging for just not doing presents at all), and the latter included a hard copy of the most recent edition of Garner's Modern English Usage, which was a delightful surprise.

We actually had a white Christmas, which has never been a sure thing and is getting rarer and rarer at terrible speeds, but now ice and rain are arriving, to be followed by a cold snap, so I'm really glad we don't need to leave the house anytime soon. (See also: will we lose power? Very possibly! >.< But we're pretty well-equipped to deal with it.)

I'm feeling like I should be looking ahead or setting small goals or trying to find specific things I want to focus on, but so far I'm not really scrounging the brain for it. Anyone want to tell me about how you're approaching it?

(I do think I'll sign up for a GYWO wordcount goal again, despite having written almost literally zero words this year, but at this point I have the grim suspicion that the words may stay gone until a new full-on fannish obsession hits me, and that's so infrequent for me. ;_; I have so many Guardian WIPs and fragments. [And while I'm enjoying seeing all the fannish glee over Heated Rivalry, I don't currently feel fannish about it myself {which, honestly, I'm okay with}.])

Recent media, mostly books: All Is Bright, Llinos Cathryn Thomas' "read over Advent" novella, which was lovely; The Dark is Rising (book), which I'm glad to have finally read; I don't know if/when I might read the books that follow it; Snake-Eater by T. Kingfisher; Widdershins by Jordan L. Hawk; KJ Charles' Masters in this Hall (which I should've checked the series info about first, as it's the third Lilywhite Boys book and I haven't read the second. Oops); and Brigid Kemmerer's A Curse So Dark and Lonely.

[personal profile] scruloose and I finished listening to System Collapse, so we're out of Murderbot books. Yesterday (?) we listened to the four-minute audiobook sample of The Thief, which I might be able to work with? But wow, the voice sounds so much older than Gen to me. (Also, Kobo, four minutes is a reasonable sample length, but it literally cuts off mid-word.)

I watched the season finale of Heated Rivalry pretty promptly on Friday morning, for fear of being spoiled, which meant [personal profile] scruloose, who hadn't seen any of the show previously, pretty much watched it too while feeding the cats and having their own breakfast. (I did give them some background info first.) As noted above: not feeling fannish, but I thought that was really well done overall, and the actors seem like an absolute delight.

And we've watched two movies since starting vacation (Wake Up Dead Man and Sinners), which brings me up to a whopping four [4] movies this year.
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james_davis_nicoll ([personal profile] james_davis_nicoll) wrote2025-12-29 02:08 pm
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Bundle of Holding: The Burning Wheel



An all-new Burning Wheel Bundle presenting The Burning Wheel, the medieval-themed tabletop fantasy roleplaying game about vibrant, dynamic characters whose beliefs propel the story.

Bundle of Holding: The Burning Wheel
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote2025-12-29 02:07 pm

Would my dog or cat really eat me if I died alone?

Morbid question, but let's be serious here: If you were trapped in a house with nothing to eat but your recently deceased pet, wouldn't you at least think about it?

People talk about this like it's so shocking, or like it means your pet obviously doesn't really love you, but c'mon. I love my cat, but I'd eat her in a heartbeat if she was already dead and there was nothing else left. She's my cat, she's not my baby. It's not like I've gone full on Donner Party - and let's be clear, if that was all that was left on the table, and they were already dead, I'd do that too. At least, I'd think about doing it. I suppose I might not be able to bring myself to go that far, but I wouldn't find it shocking if another person did!
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bill_schubert ([personal profile] bill_schubert) wrote2025-12-29 12:44 pm

Pickleball and chill

It is cold today.  Not freezing but ten degrees above that.  Cold enough.  Another happy day to play PB inside.   I did my usual two hours and it was OK.  I'm never really satisfied but it was fun enough and I got in half a dozen games.  

One of the other players wanted to start up a group within our group inviting the better players.  This lands below the aggressive advanced group but a little above some of our group.  He is doing it on Tueaday and Thursday at noon.  So four hours later in the day (everyone's retired so who cares).  For those of use already signed up for Monday/Wednesday/Friday it offers up the possibility of playing every day.  I'm not sure my wrist and shoulder will find that enticing.  But I was invited and will play tomorrow (and my usual Wednesday) so we'll see how I feel by Thursday.  

I used to ride my bike only every other day until one time I started doing my ride every day.  Turned out I didn't need as much down time as I thought.  I suspect this will not be the case now.  I'm older and the joint stress is worse.  But we'll test the theory.

Just now I cancelled my USAA Visa card with its $35000 credit limit.  It will be interesting to see if my credit score goes down.  Other than two Google screwups I've not used the card for over a year so it may not make any difference at all.  But I don't need it and don't want to have it sitting around for no reason.  One less thing to track.  I've got $2.17 in my USAA checking account and think I've found the last auto deposit entity and redirected it so I can completely close that account too.  And I just transferred the $2.17 so once that reads zero ... Another simplification in my life.

Meanwhile I really need a nap.  So I'm off to take a shower and a nap.



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loup_noir ([personal profile] loup_noir) wrote2025-12-29 08:57 am

In Which I Discover a New Fandom and, Wow! Fandom's Changed

I've always been a fan of cartoons, pardon me, animations, anime, graphic novels.  The freedom that that artwork gives a story, especially a good one, ignores all fleshly restrictions.  What's making me happy right now?  Hazbin Hotel on Prime is.

The Princess of Hell, Lucifer Morningstar's daughter Charlie (Why Charlie?  That's a question I'd like to ask the creator of the show.) believes in redemption, and she wants to help the damned achieve that state.  With songs!  Angst! And surprisingly good Catholic dogma, says the very lapsed Catholic here.  It was fun as it was, but when the Seraphim showed up with all the eyes, I was in for the ride. 

I had no expectation that it would survive for a second season, but it did and the storyline continued to be good.  In many ways, it has A Knight's Tale feeling.  There's a silly, shiny layer, but there's also a lot of history holding it together.  All that reading for my Durmstrang series on the levels of heaven and hell, who inhabits where, etc. made Hazbin a lot more fun.

What was completely new to me was the fandom.  Amazon has Hazbin Hotel Live on Broadway.  All the voice actors, a lot of the songs, and wonderful, lingering shots of the fans, who know all the words and motions to the songs and many wearing fantastic costumes.  The Alastors were especially good.  

youtu.be/G1C1MFv7CKU  Hope that works. It's a link to the show-stopper for S2.  If you haven't seen the series, Lute (again, why that name?) is the angel, the dark male figure is Adam (as in Adam and Eve), and the angel at the door is Abel.  


Alpennia Blog ([syndicated profile] alpennia_feed) wrote2025-12-29 04:26 pm

A Disappointing and Brief Article on the Mahabharata

Posted by Heather Rose Jones

Monday, December 29, 2025 - 08:00

It's hard to tell whether the content in this article is thin because there isn't much to say or because of the overall superficiality of the work. I'm guessing the latter, as other articles and books I've found on India have been richer.

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Full citation: 

Shah, Shalini. 1991. “Women and Sexuality in the Mahabharata” in Proceedings of the Indian History Congress, Vol. 52: 138-144.

In addition tot he superficial nature of this article, there were numerous editorial problems with it, leading me to question the professionalism of the parent publication.

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This article is very short, more a set of presentation bullet-points than a full article. Only one small section is relevant and that material is given rather odd connections to Classical Greek motifs. Given that the whole article is somewhat cursory, I feel more forgiving of the briefness of the material.

The article notes “There is only a solitary reference to relations between individuals of the same sex. In the Anushasana Parva Panchachuda tells Narada that when women find no males at hand, they satisfy each other’s desires.” This is also a reference to another publication describing “solitary women who would dress up their female friends as males and passionately embrace them.” The author suggests these practices were due to the segregation of women in polyamorous patriarchal households.

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Susan Dennis ([personal profile] susandennis) wrote2025-12-29 08:54 am

Worried no more

My brother arrives a week from tomorrow!! He's here for 6 days and I was a little worried that we might not have enough to do. I don't have any sports channels and he's no longer eating. But, then I organized my list of todo's.

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I think we'll be busy enough. Plus I still have a week to add to the list. Plus he can watch me eat. That should make up for no sports channels. hahahaha

And, yep, my latest thing is writing on my fridge with erasable markers.
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lydamorehouse ([personal profile] lydamorehouse) wrote2025-12-29 10:47 am

Monday Blues

 Hey, y'all, I hope you're doing well.

I'm feeling sort of low. Does anyone have a cheerful story to share? If so, I'd love to hear it!